Wednesday, June 25, 2025

A Really BAD Haircut

 "But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering."
1 Corinthians 11:15

I think all women love to go and get their hair done, whether it's a new cut, the same cut, added color or curl.  Appointments are generally made for the next time even before leaving the salon; it gives us something to look forward to.
And excited I was! I was counting the days this past week, and at the same time telling myself, 'Don't cut your bangs yourself! It's almost time for your appointment!" (Confession, sometimes I get impatient and take the scissors to my own hair; it's never a good look!)

Knowing that I will be going on vacation in a few short days to see family I have not seen in a very long time, I was really excited for my hair appointment.
I walked out of the Salon mortified!  What happened? I tried to keep my tears at bay while telling myself, "Just go home, take a shower, style your hair just like you always do, it will be ok."
It's not ok. The tears fell.

As I held the mirror up to look at the reflection of the back of my head, Solomon's words entered my thoughts:
"Vanity of vanities, saith the Preacher, vanity of vanities; all is vanity." Ecclesiastes 1:2

I whispered, "I know Lord, it's just hair, it will grow."
Did my whispered prayer remove my mortification? No, but at the same time I know that it will only last for about 6 weeks and it really will be ok.

The mistake is in the back of my head...
    I don't have to look at it...
        I just feel sorry for the person sitting behind me in church...
            But that's just me!

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

My Constant

In a world that is constantly changing, I'm thankful for the one thing that will never change-
God's Word.

"The grass withereth, the flower fadeth: but the word of our God shall stand for ever." Isaiah 40:8
"Heaven and earth shall pass away, but my words shall not pass away." Words of Jesus, Matthew 24:35 

In a world where people constantly change, I'm thankful for The One Who will never change-God.

"But thou art the same, and thy years shall have no end." Psalm 102:27
"For I am the LORD, I change not;" Malachi 3:6a
"Jesus Christ the same yesterday, to day, and for ever." Hebrews 13:8

God is my constant in a constantly changing world.
He will never let me down for His Word remains sure.
I can be Me in His presence, for His love towards me will never change.
When I accepted His Son, He accepted me.

I will forever be in His hands...
    And nothing and no one can ever change that...
        But that's just me!

"Though you have changed a thousand times, He has not changed once." Charles Spurgeon

Monday, June 23, 2025

The Other Shoe

Have you heard the expression, "Waiting for the other shoe to drop?" This was a common experience of tenement living in apartment-style housing in New York City and other large cities during the manufacturing boom of the late 19th and early 20th centuries. Apartments were built with very similar designs, with the bedrooms located directly above and underneath one another. Thus, it was normal to hear a neighbor removing their shoes in the apartment above. As one shoe made a sound hitting the floor, the expectation for the other shoe to make a similar disturbance was created. (Wiktionary)
It also means=to await a seemingly inevitable event, especially one that is not desirable. (Wiktionary)

I must have a centipede living in my home this past month because multiple shoes have dropped with a resounded THUD and I am awaiting more to follow...or has the final shoe made it to the floor?

Ever have a week like that? Bad news arrives, disappointments, broken appliances, bad weather, unexpected illness, and the list could go on and on.  Feeling a little empty? Maybe you think that if one more thing happens, you will finally break.  That is completely normal but there is a remedy for such discouragement: JESUS.
I was reminded this week when I suffered a huge disappointment, that God already knew this was going to happen, so now I am left with a decision to make; there is a choice to be made. Will I have a pity party, or press on for the glory of God?  If I allow my feelings to make my decision, it will be the wrong choice. When I allow God's Word to direct my decision, I will be blessed by my choice and God will get the glory due His Name.

Psalm 62:8 says, "Trust in him at all times; ye people, pour out your heart before him; God is a refuge for us. Selah"
Psalm 91:2-"I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress; my God; in him will I trust."
Psalm 29:11 "The LORD will give strength unto his people; the LORD will bless his people with peace." 

Yes, there will be times when it seems like the hits just keep coming...
    But God knows all about it...
        And He is still in control...
            But that's just me!


Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Only Good

"For I know the thoughts I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not evil, to give you an expected end." Jeremiah 29:11

These thoughts were given to the Jews that had been taken to Babylon in 597 B.C. to exhort them to live as normal a life as possible, to await God's deliverance after 70 years of captivity.  
Can you imagine the reassurance that God had given to these people? God promised them that even though they were going through captivity, He had a purpose and a plan for them and that He would make good on His promises for a better future.
I love that.

Sometimes when I'm going through a tough time, I wonder why? But then God reminds me that things may be tough right now, but things will get better. He promises! He has a plan and a purpose for my life.
His plans are not evil; His plans are peace that will produce an 'unexpected end.' That means that God has a future and a hope just for me, and as a child of God, you do too.

I had some heartbreaking news yesterday, and the disappointed is so great that I have no words to describe it.  Plans that have been in the making for months and just days of coming to pass were suddenly cancelled. A great disappointment of temporal things.
I'm reminded that there is only one thing that is constant in my temporal life on earth, and that is Jesus Christ.  He is the same yesterday, today and forever.  He never changes.  His Word never changes; His promises never change!

On my best day, I'm a child of God...
    On my worst day, I'm a child of God...
        And His promises for good towards me, never change...
            But that's just me!

"The LORD has promised good to me,
His Word my hope secures;
He will my shield and portion be,
As long as life endures."
verse 4, Amazing Grace, John Newton 1779

Thursday, June 12, 2025

Completely

"He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds." Psalm 147:3

Let's define some words based on Strong's Concordance:
Healeth=7495. To mend, cure, repair, make whole.
Broken=7665. Crush, destroy, hurt, break down, in pieces.
Heart=3820. Feeling, will, intellect, the center of everything.
Bindeth=2280. To wrap firmly, compress.
Wounds=6094. Pain, sorrow.

This is one of my all-time favorite verses.  Once the words are defined, I read this verse as:
"He makes me whole from the broken pieces of my innermost self, and he compresses my pain and my sorrow."

I've felt crushed before, have you?  A cruel word, the loss of a loved one, discouragement.  Then I open God's Word to Psalm 147 and read verse 3.
God doesn't just put a band aid on my hurts; He completely restores what has been crushed, destroyed, hurt and broken down.
When I read, "and bindeth up their wounds," I think of God stopping my bleeding.
That's what a broken heart feels like sometimes; like you are bleeding from the heart. But God stops that bleeding and restores FULLY.

He can do that because He knows what a broken heart feels like. He knows what it's like to be hated, ignored, rejected and cursed.  My God, the Great Physician, the Greatest of all Comforters, heals all of my hurts. 

Only He can relate to my brokenness...
    and Only He can restore me completely...
        But that's just me!

"Hearts are broken through disappointment. Hearts are broken through bereavement. Hearts are broken in ten thousand ways, for this is a heart-breaking world; and Christ is good at healing all manner of heartbreaks." Charles Spurgeon


Thursday, June 5, 2025

Mountain Tops, Valleys, and Meadows

"Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content."
Philippians 4:11

As Believers, we have all experienced Mountain tops in our Christian Walk, whether it's victory over sin, or being recharged in a Revival; and as Believers, we have all experienced Valleys in our Christian Walk, whether it's disappointment, unmet expectations, or the loss of a loved one.
But what about our Meadow?  Where we dwell on a day-to-day basis; our 'normal.'   Sometimes we can misidentify our Meadow for a Valley.  As a person who lives with a chronic illness, on really bad days I tend to think I've drifted into a Valley, when in truth, I'm just having a bad day in my Meadow.
Everybody's Meadows are different; however, most Meadows are outlined by shelter belts. Trees, overgrown brush, thistles and thorns.  Sometimes our feelings, health and loneliness will draw us to the tree line. Discontent in our Meadow, we take a step inside the shelter belt, and we get entangled in the thistles, the cares of the world.  But if we turn around, even though we have not escaped the wooded area, the view we have of our own Meadow doesn't look so bad anymore and we are safely drawn back to where we need to be.  (Sometimes we think the grass is greener in someone else's Meadow and we get distracted.)  Tall grass may be in our Meadow; hidden critters of fatigue and disappointments tend to make us look down and think we have entered into a Valley, but when we look up and see The Son, our perspective changes and we become thankful for our own Meadow, no matter where it may be, and no matter what it may hold, because we know that our needs are being met right where we are.  

My Meadow isn't always easy...
    But I choose to be content...
        Because I know my Lord placed me here...
            But that's just me!
In the In Between
Wayne Watson/Sandi Patty
2012

I've seen some glorious days,
Where I flew so much higher,
Much higher than I ever thought I would,
And soaring through the air I would declare,
Well, isn't God, Isn't He good?
'Cause He was, and He is, and He always will be,
But in the in between
It's hard for me to see,
In the in between.
Where everyday life happens,
And the fields of green
Belonged to someone else
In the in between
Of what will be and what has been
Jesus is a faithful friend
In the in between
I've been unsure of myself
But even in the dark
I'm pretty sure that all is well and then I see
There in a mirror looking back at me
A work that is not everything that it would be
And He was and He is, And He always will be
Close beside and holdin' on to me
And in the in between
Where everyday life happens,
And the fields of green
Belonged to someone else
In the in between
Of what will be and what has been
Jesus is a faithful friend
In the in between
Grace and mercy know no season
There is no good reason why the best of days
Might not be the days ahead
And in the in between when you have some time to dream
Your faith and strength will be restored
By the gracious Lord of the in between
Where everyday life happens and the fields of green
Belonged to someone else
In the in between
Of what will be and what has been
(Jesus is the same yesterday, today and forever)
Jesus is a faithful friend,
In the in between.




Tuesday, June 3, 2025

Security of the godly

 "Praise ye the LORD. Blessed is the man that feareth the LORD, that delighteth greatly in his commandments." Psalm 112:1

 I read this Psalm this morning and just had to share the many blessings God promises to those who delight in His commandments; they are all found in verses 2-9.

1-He is blessed with physical and material prosperity because he is righteous.
2-Light is given even in darkness. (This can refer to prosperity in place of disaster, or to discernment. Walvoord & Zuck)
3-He receives goodness in return for being generous and just.
4-He will be firmly established in his faith, unshakeable, with no fear of what man might do to him.
5-Because he gives to the poor, his horn will be lifted up, meaning he will be made strong and honorable by the Lord.

God is so very good to us! He is gracious, compassionate and righteous!
And according to this Psalm the attributes of a good man who is obedient to God's commandments will have:
-Favour
-Discretion
-Sure footing!

-Praise the LORD!
-Happy is the man who fears the LORD and delights in His commandments. (They are not grievous. 1 John 5:3)
In fact, remaining in the obedience of His commandments is one of the very reasons we are safe!

Then in verses 10 and 11 we see the contrasts between the blessings of those who fear and obey God, to those who are wicked.  The wicked will be filled with anxiety because of the goodness of God towards the righteous, and the wicked will perish and be powerless over the righteous.

I was thinking about that.  Sometimes it seems the wicked win.  Sometimes it seems that nothing ever happens to those who do not do what is right, but God's Word promises the Believer that the days of the wicked will be cut off.
I remember years ago, the dear wife of one of our Missionaries showed me 1 Peter 4:19,
"Wherefore let them that suffer according to the will of God commit the keeping of their souls to him in well doing, as unto a faithful Creator."

God sees, He knows, He hears...
    Just keep doing right, place your burdens in God's hands...
        And He will take care of everything.
            But that's just me!




Monday, June 2, 2025

Urchins, Rag-a-Muffins, Precious

I had the privilege to help in the kitchen at Jr. Camp today preparing the children's lunches.  (Yes, the privilege.)  It brought joy to my heart to see all the smiling, 'Happy Campers' work on their crafts, play games and interact with each other. It reminded me of what Mr. Fred Rogers once told a child; He said, "Thank you for allowing me to remember what it was like to be a child."
He also said, "Childhood is not just clowns and balloons, in fact, childhood goes to the very heart of who we all become."
And that's where Biblical training begins.

Our world has no time for its children today.  The ones not aborted, are left with babysitters and nannies and dropped off at childcare centers as their parents spend more time at work than at home.  I have heard children identified as 'urchins and ragamuffins' sometimes playfully, and at other times, with disdain, and yet Jesus welcomed them all with open arms.
Children are precious in the sight of God.

"But Jesus said, Suffer little children, and forbid them not, to come unto me: for of such is the kingdom of heaven. And he laid his hands on them, and departed thence." Matthew 19:14-15.  Jesus also warns us that it would be better for us to have a millstone hung about our necks and drowned in the depths of the sea if we were ever to offend a little child. (Matthew 18:6)

The children I observed today, will one day grow up.  I told another Kitchen Helper that we are being blessed by observing the faces of our future Preachers, Missionaries, and Sunday School Teachers.  
She replied, "And this is what it's really all about."

Thank you, Lord,
    for reminding me that we are all precious in your sight...
        No matter how old we are!
            But that's just me!

"Jesus loves the little children, all the children of the world;
Red and yellow, black and white, they are precious in His sight,
Jesus loves the little children of the world!"  C. Herbert Woolston